Some of the strategies for Stoic living
- Negative Visualization this helps us to want what we already have and not take anything for granted
- spend time imagining things you have. Your health, family, eyesight etc...
- think about how much you would miss your eyesight, or ability to walk if they were gon
- pay attention to misfortunes that happen to other people and think about if they happened to you
- keep firmly in mind that everything we value will be lost to us eventually
- remember there will always be a final occurrence of everything we
- Dichotomy of Control
- only focus on your internal goals
- some things are out of our control (whether it rains)
- some things are partially in our control (how well we try at tennis)
- some things are in out control our internal goals
- Fates
- learn to adapt ourselves to the environment in which fate has places us
- A "good man" will welcome "every experience the looms of fate may weave for him"
- Epictetus says admiration of other people is a negative barometer of our progress as Stoics. To be immune to insults also.
- Blame ourselves, not others, when our desires are thwarted. We find we have fewer desires.
- Do we engage in negative visualization?
- Are we careful to internalize goals? (meaning, how many pages you write a day, not whether others like it, etc..
- Have we refrained from dwelling in the past?
- Do we distinguish between things we have complete control over and no control or partial?
- Do we practice the art of self denial? (This is where you purposely do without so you see that the worst may not be so awful.)
- Daily meditations on our actions of the day and how skillful they were
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